hi! i’m jocelyn (she/they).

I am an AuDHD, queer, gender fluid, 2nd generation Chinese-Canadian immigrant living in the Bay Area of California. The intersection of these identities and growing up in an overwhelmingly White, conservative part of Canada informed my experience of feeling simultaneously not enough and too much. As well, my experience with severe postpartum depression and infant feeding allowed me to question everything I had learned from social and transgenerational messages about what it means to be a “good mother” and to have a “good body.” I set my intention to work with folks who live in these intersections and phases of life, to navigate the oppressive structures that prevent us from expressing ourselves authentically.

how i work

My theoretical orientations are primarily Family Systems, Narrative Therapy, and Psychodynamic Therapy.

In our therapeutic relationship, genuine, empathetic care and connection come first. I understand that healing is not only individual but also systemic. I use family systems techniques to heal your inner child and psychodynamic techniques to uncover patterns that are not serving you. This will help you deconstruct your past stories, to strengthen the authoring of your future stories. I help you move towards addressing your needs, and developing clarity and solutions using person-centered tenets with evidence-based CBT and DBT techniques.

I work with a social justice and trauma-informed lens, and I particularly focus on the insidious trauma that people from marginalized communities can experience. I will validate your experience and help you to break cycles of feeling unheard and unseen.

I believe that allowing ourselves and our loved ones to play can be incredibly comforting. I will help you rework intergenerational trauma, moving into more conscious, gentle parenting, whether for yourself or your loved ones.

I believe that we deserve the agency to honor and celebrate our bodies, which sometimes includes rewriting our body-related narrative, acknowledging cultural beauty standards, and incorporating cultural foods and memories.

I can help uncover repeated, sometimes unconscious, patterns that are not serving you and help you move towards addressing your needs and developing clarity and solutions.

professional background

Education

University of Calgary: B.Sc. Psychology with Honors
St. Mary's College of California: M.A. Counseling, Marriage and Family Therapy and Professional Clinical Counselor concentration

Clinical Settings

Discovery Counseling Center
San Ramon Valley Unified School District
Alameda County Crisis Support Services volunteer
Core Wellness Living
Deeper Than Color

Trainings

Postpartum Support International and 2020Mom Maternal Mental Health Certificate
Certified Eating Disorder Specialization supervision with Nan Shaw, LCSW and Jaimi Taylor, LMFT
BIPOC Eating Disorder Conference Attendee (2022)

Professional Associations

California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT)
International Association of Eating Disorder Professionals (IAEDP)

Previous Supervisors

Jaimi Taylor, LMFT, CEDS
Dr. Bedford Palmer II, Ph.D.
Rachel Kincaid, LMFT
Stacy Linder, LMFT
Kathy Kane, LMFT